Bad Love or bad LUST or plain old one night stand!!!

Why is it that everyone treats 'making love' or should I say one night stand or for want of better word - SEX as casual - its no more the desire- the want - the passion that one has to have for another person. Its like one of your basic necessities - yea yea....I know I know it is a basic necessity! But to such an extent that you will go around if you like a person go ahead with that person - end it say your goodbyes and well.....just say - "I had a great nite!"

What about those days when it was actually an act of love - rather than some sort of show off that people do off late - and discussing positions is well like telling people what exercise they should do if they want to reduce the stomach area - or if they want biceps, etc...and you can no more blame the male gender for their hunger to sleep with women.

What do you know....its become a two sided story....even women crave for it. And gone are the days when there was something like ok let him make the first move....and NOW - Well am gonna be reaching the top baby!!! whadda you know!!!

And after the 11 minute activity (well the survey says its good if it lasts till 13 minutes - sorry guys for that) but what the heck - an activity is an activity...well its like - Do I actually know you??

Guess next time when you meet the person and you ask them whats so unique about a particular person perhaps you might hear them say that well - he/she sure knows the ____ position very well - no longer are the days when you can actually say - he's a good kisser....GOSH!!!

I think am going bonkers.....till then well have a great and a safe nite!!!!

Love lost or lack of Men!!!

Wisemen say, (no not only fools rush in...:) ) but they say that 'Wait and Watch!' Be it anything, work, money, or men! Wait for the right one to come....and so from that day you start counting, the day you encounter the first one....hmmm...aaaahhh...naahhh...he is'nt the one you have been dreaming about...

Then comes along the second one....aahhh...."Is he?", "At least he is better than the last guy...", so.....then suddenly the world crashes...and its bye bye....

After a good time being single...there comes a third guy, now mind you after seeing the destiny of the past two guys maybe you become cautious, be selective, etc....you think and talk, watch his every move, etc...and when things are going hunky dory...Baaam!!! And things have fallen apart before you even knew.

Till now you have decided that its best to be single. The world is much better place without them. Join the singles club, bitch about men (yea how can you not forget women too!) And by this time not to forget, even your friends have started getting engaged, married....and you still think..."Naaah, am the happiest person being single."

And its time also that you see men coming along your way...but naahhh...its okay. And by now your friends have started having babies, kids and suddenly they don't seem to match up with your mental pace and well....and here comes the standard line...'Wait and Watch' yeah right have watched my hair go from the walnut/reddish streaks that I have done to whitish streaks....(no don't blame the hair colours please!) and still no sign of man, forget the right kinds....

And to all the women who share the same woes like me...well all I can say is 'Waaait and Watch'!